• Tête-à-Tête with Ali Haverkamp of @aliinstitches

    Tête-à-Tête with Ali Haverkamp of @aliinstitches

     

    I first came across Ali's Instagram account when she tagged us while stitching our "5 Gingham Bunnies" canvas. I immediately went down the rabbit hole and checked out all her posts. She has such a wide range of different canvases, all stitched perfectly, and you can see she truly enjoys each and every one of them. As often happens in the needlepoint community on Instagram, I sent Ali a DM about something, and we've occasionally communicated over the last couple of years. Ali has one of the most popular Needlepoint Instagram accounts and has developed quite a following through her "Thought Thursday" Stories. She is well-known for her many Needlepoint related polls, but it is her numerous charitable endeavors that I truly admire.  I am thrilled Ali is part of the needlepoint community and I'm excited to share our conversation with you.

     

    1. For some of our followers who don’t follow you, could you please tell us a bit about your needlepoint background? When and how did you learn to needlepoint?

    I started stitching in April 2022—so I’m still a newbie (right?). My mom passed away in February 2022, and I was drowning in grief while trying to move forward to care for my then 2-year-old daughter, Riley. My mom always had a project going, whether it was a sewing kit, cross stitch, or even knitting, so I asked my husband’s aunt to teach me how to cross stitch, as I knew she was very good at it (or so I thought!). Well, it turned out she was really a needlepointer! Thank goodness, because I can’t imagine doing all that counting for cross stitch. It took me several weeks to figure out the difference between cross stitch and needlepoint, but we’re on the right track now!

     My first project: Santa suit by Silver Needle.

     

     

      2.  Your "Thought Thursday" stories have taken on a life of their own. I always look forward to seeing what you post, whether it be a poll of some sort or a charitable endeavor. Please share with us how it came about, and do you have any aspirations for your "Thought Thursday" stories?

    Okay, so my husband’s aunt, who taught me to stitch, lives about three hours from me, and I didn’t know anyone who stitched. So... I started posting questions on my needlepoint Instagram, like what background color should I use for this, how do I do this stitch, etc. This was before I even knew there were so many fibers, places to buy needlepoint, designers, etc. During this time, I made so many friendships and started getting into conversations with people in DMs, and I found it so fun!

    I started "Thought Thursday" when more and more people began answering the questions and were always curious about the responses. Never did I think it would become what it has, with hundreds of stitchers participating weekly! We have also supported designers, cleared teacher wishlists, and donated to many charities together—I love this community so much!!

    My only aspiration with "Thought Thursday" is to bring stitchers and the Needlepoint community closer together, creating connections! I have met some of my very best friends through needlepoint. I hope everyone reading will join us for "Thought Thursday" at @aliinstitches on Instagram!

     3.  What are you stitching at the moment? Do you tend to stitch multiple canvases at the same time, or are you a one-canvas-at-a-time girl? Also, do you prefer small or large canvases, 13" or 18" mesh?

    I am stitching SO many projects!! I am definitely a multiple-project girl; sometimes I just can’t help but start another. I do lean toward smaller projects because I feel they’re easier to pick up and hold, but I’ve done my fair share of larger ones too! I definitely enjoy a mix of 13 and 18 mesh.

    Here are all my current WIPs:

    @bluecanarycanvas theNDLPThat that my bestie Whitney (@ndlptcookie) gifted me!!

    My longest WIP is the "I would prefer not to" by Lycette, and I just love love love this one so much, but a large basketweave project is not my favorite (never again!—but I’m too lazy to rip it out at this point).

  • @atlanticbluecanvas "Pink Monster" by Stitches by Midge
  • @slsneedlepoint  "Ask me about my Needlepoint" 
  • @pennylinndesigns  "I’d love to, but I can’t"
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  • @_poppysdesigns "Pumpkin Patch" sign
  • @saturnaliastitching "Back to School" window (I loooooove stitching these windows so much!!)
  • My white whale!!!!! Notre Dame Stadium by Jude Designs, which my wonderful bestie Taylor (@taylorndlpts) found for me.
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       4. I am very impressed with your stitching. Could you give us some insight into your process of choosing canvases, threads, and decorative stitches?

    I just choose canvases that I like! Riley also dictates a lot of choices as she loooooves needlepoint and wants to keep it all in her room, so many things I get because I know she will like them. I love holiday stitching (still looking for the perfect 12 Days set for me)! I also enjoy stitching sentimental things like the @mypinksugarlife points up cookie, which my mom always loved. I also looooove finding things I didn’t even know I needed and buying from destashing websites or other stitchers who are destashing.

    Most of my 18 mesh projects are stitched with DMC cotton, which is my favorite!!! And most of my 13 mesh projects are with Planet Earth Silk. I love to use Very Velvet, Silk Lame Braid, or Entice to give a little extra, but I don’t use a ton of different fibers. And! Fun Fact! I’ve never tried beading.

    Truly, Taylor (@taylorndlpts) is like my personal stitch advisor, and I’m soooooo thankful.

     

     5. Can you please share with us some of the goodies you have in your stash?

    Oh yes!!! Gosh, I wish I had about 4 more hours every day to devote just to stitching!

    I’m super excited to stitch @plumdesign_ winter trees, @oliviagraceneedlepoint fair isle shamrock (LOVE her fair isle series!), The Salty Stitcher's mistletoe ball, @goodpointneedlepoint daisy round, @prepsetter daisy pillow, and IDK this designer, but this daisy frame! Daisies were a thing with my mom, and one of the only videos I have of her and my daughter is her saying “whoopsie daisy,” and my daughter cracking up—so like alllllll the daisy canvases are a must for me!

     

     

    And soon, I’m going to get started on the @stitchstyleblog reindeer, I have three now!

     

     

    I also love to stitch @morganjuliadesigns bar carts, @aturnaliastitching windows and @goodpointdesigns signs and have many of these in my stash!

      6. Is there anything special on your wish list that you would like to stitch one day?

     

    I just finished the @melissa_shirley_designs Valentine’s Village, and I would love to do her Halloween Town and @debbiemumminc Christmas Village. I’m still not sure if a stocking is on my radar, as my mom made all our stockings from sewing kits, but the @danji_designs stockings are so adorable.

    A few other wishlist items are @stitchrockdesigns Christmas Vacation canvases and her daisy eggs, the @kcndesigners 4th of July pillow, and Emily Quigley’s pink ceramic tree and pink gingerbread house.

     

    Thank you, Ali, for sharing a bit about yourself with our readers.